That is my absolute favorite line from any movie when Jack Nicholson tells Tom Cruise, “you can't handle the truth” in a Few Good Men. That describes so many people today! We have been such a feeling-oriented society to where we would rather someone lie to us than tell us what's wrong so we an change it. The bible says, “To accept correction is wise, to reject it is stupid." (CEV) according to Proverbs 12:1. Did you see that? The Bible says this certain behavior is stupid. Can you imagine the reaction we would get if we tell a person that their behavior is stupid? They would probably say “you are bringing me down”. “You hurt my feelings.” When in actuality, when you tell a person the truth, you are giving them the chance to come up. I am seen many women get upset when a family member tells them they have gained weight. My question is, “Did you yell at the mirror when it told you the same thing?” You know your pants have gotten hard to button! The Bible says “the Truth shall set you free”. That is the Truth that you know and accept. In order for you to know it, someone has to tell you or you have to read it. Why do so many people get mad at preachers who preach against certain sins? They are simply quoting the Bible. When the Bible says certain sins are an abomination, that's exactly what it means. There is no symbolism to abomination. It means exactly what it says. My Pastor's wife said the other day that people don't get mad when a doctor tells you to quit smoking, but when a preacher does they call it judging. So true! You mean to tell me that you are mad that someone is trying to help you live longer! That is why the Bible calls the behavior of a person that doesn't accept correction STUPID. The Bible tells us to examine ourselves. Please do so. Do you get mad when a person tells you something about yourself that is true? Do you get mad at the pastor when he calls out your certain sin? If so, then change immediately. You will never go higher in life, naturally or spiritually, if you don't change this.